Wednesday, September 16, 2015

Blog Post #1

In preparing for my first conversation session, I'm excited to get to learn more about different types of people and their perceptions of the United States and American culture. Of course, while I hope that I am able to teach my group members a lot about language and culture, I know that I will also be learning a lot, and I'm really looking forward to increasing my own cultural awareness by getting to meet some of the diverse students here at the university.

I am also nervous about a few aspects of leading a conversation circle. I am worried that the group will run out of interesting things to talk about, or that participants will feel too shy or uncomfortable in participating. I hope to create a safe and open space for conversation, but I worry that some students will still feel reluctant to contribute. I also worry that the students will look to me as their teacher, as opposed to a friend who is trying to learn along with them. I wouldn't want to seem like an authority figure among these students who are my peers. Lastly, I worry that there will be some cultural clashes in our conversation, especially if we have a more diverse group. Of course, while debate and discussing differences can be very valuable, I hope that it doesn't create tension between different members.

Many factors have motivated me to become a Chat Cafe facilitator. First of all, being exposed to different languages and cultures when I was growing up has given me an increased sense of multicultural respect and appreciation. I'm also very interested in the language-learning process, and hope to teach English abroad after I graduate. Lastly, I'm also motivated to learn about different perspectives of students on this campus. It's sometimes hard to meet international students in my classes or extracurricular activities, and I think this would be a great way to expose myself to people of different backgrounds.

1 comment:

  1. Hey Mena. Regarding potential "cultural clashes" -- I think it makes sense to remain attentive to your group's dynamics, to make sure people seem to be getting along, to make sure no one is dominating the conversation and no one is being excluded, and to gauge the temperature of people's remarks to make sure things don't get heated or weird. So keep your eyes and ears open. But also, I would urge you not to be fearful that problems will arise. Participants in Chat Cafe have generally been friendly, and have signed up in order to make friends. Such people are unlikely to come to Chat Cafe meetings looking for conflict. Meanwhile, if you want to discuss strategies for defusing conflict in a conversation, feel free to raise the topic in class.

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